After a very challenging last week (my computer giving up the ghost and I backed up a shortcut of my desktop files yes that means there was nothing there – another ghost annoyed or what??), this week was positively uplifting. Which of course indicates life is like the ocean the waves rise and fall, now when we become a surfer we start to enjoy rather than fear those waves. The only thing that really has changes is our perception, the waves are still the waves.

The wonderful  thing about stuff not going to plan, or more to the point  not planned, for  truth be told if I had planned and taken action my computer it wouldn’t have been in such a mess!   The thing is the situation provided me with lots of opportunities to learn, not only about computers but about myself and my emotions.

There were times when my patience were under severe pressure, I  found I had to pull myself aside and have a little word with myself, “ Doreen you can choose to stick with the task, ask for help, have a break or throw the dam machine out the door and stamp on it with anger!!!”. After a few deep breaths (always a good idea) having done my best (with the knowledge and skills I had at the time), I called for help, which is though for us independent types!!  Then I remembered a teacher telling me once, asking for help is not a sign of weakness, rather an act of kindness which allows another to have an opportunity to shine.  Perception is everything that felt much better.

There was a point after spending two hours  and eventually  getting into my business e-mail (Google doesn’t allow you to have two accounts open at the same time, I know this now)  I found myself pulled between the desire to cry (for the two hours lost) or sing (for the breakthrough).  I chose to sing.  It felt so empowering to feel I had the choice.

The truth is of course we always have a choice on how we react to life’s stuff however we don’t always feel we have a choice.  Stress is one of the biggest factors these days in taking away our feeling of choice.  There may be all kinds of beliefs driving that stress at auto pilot level.  What does your inner critic say to you which is dis-empowering you?

If you think you would like some help  to feel calm within call Doreen on 01628 675400 or 07969 782666 or visit www.shamrockhypnothrapy.co.uk/articles

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Written by Doreen
Before establishing myself as a Clinical Hypnotherapist, I worked for many years in International Business in the UK and the Far East. During that time it occurred to me that I had lost touch with who I was. One brave day I resigned from my job in Hong Kong and set off on my own life’s adventure. Travelling throughout South East Asia was a feast for the mind and soul. On returning to the UK I discovered Hypnotherapy which provided a new perspective on life. The techniques empowered me to get to the root of issues, to release them and to gain new positive choices to situations. My new path began in 2000 when I trained as a Clinical Hypnotherapist at Central England Holistic Therapies. Attending training, conferences, and workshops around the world as part of my commitment to continuous growth and development for my life adventure. There is a great sense of joy from meeting like-minded people, sharing experiences and always gaining new insights. Cycling, toastmasters, travelling, pilates and volunteering at my local community arts center are some my joys in life. Reading has always been a great source of inspiration. What lights up my day is, empowering you to find your unique solution to reduce the butterflies of anxiety and self-doubt in daily life. Together we explore your inner confidence, inner calm and energy for what is important to you in your life. With your commitment we get to the root of what torments you, let it go and moving to a place of content. Allowing you to feel self-acceptance, space to make empowering choices, which create balance, so you can light up your day.